Being polite is not always helpful

In youth, it was a way I had, 

To do my best to please. 

And change, with every passing lad 

To suit his theories. 

But now I know the things I know 

And do the things I do, 

And if you do not like me so, 

To hell, my love, with you.

~ Dorothy Parker

Sometimes I become upset with my husband when he shares controversial opinions with others. I tell him to be mindful. We have to promote unity, not create division.

He says people have become too complacent, having a false sense of security, in the face of rising geopolitical tensions, economic instability, domestic dysfunction and corruption in health care.

We have to have the courage to stand up for what we believe is right. Unless people become aware of what is broken, there is no change.

He has a point. Being too “polite” is not always helpful. Boundary erosion happens when we are unable to say no. We risk being taken advantage of.

Yet, humility is essential. Care must be taken to opine only in that which we have expertise in.

There is a pervasive lack of curiosity among people of our generation. Many seem to lack factual knowledge not only of global issues but of their nation's characteristics.

It is more comfortable to hang with like-minded people. But exposure to those who challenge our thoughts and beliefs is growth-promoting.

Debate is healthy.

Awareness helps create change.